Comments on Big Girl Buddha Pants: One Teeny Tiny Baby Step at a Time

You are a better person than I, as already stated ...

2010-07-29T05:08:26.056-07:00

You are a better person than I, as already stated above by Kristen. I would be FUMING. Like in the cartoons. With a red face and smoke pouring out of my ears.

In my opinion, exes should have the good grace to pack up their things and move far far away. Like maybe Australia. Or New Zealand. For as long as it takes for me to be 110% completely over them.

Okay that's selfish, but still a greedy little fantasy of mine...

Thanks Kris :) I am no better or worse than you, ...

2010-07-15T18:35:57.841-07:00

Thanks Kris :) I am no better or worse than you, we are merely different! You for one, give absolutely fabulous life advice when I'm throwing a full blown temper tantrum on your back patio. I think I love Andy even more for picking you :).

Agh, posting problems. I'm just catching up ...

2010-07-15T13:23:30.511-07:00

Agh, posting problems.
I'm just catching up on your blog, and this post struck me. I've said before that you are a better person than I am. If it had been me, I know I would have resented the get together. I would have resented the ex for even calling. I know that for a fact, actually.

But not you. You recognized that stopping a get-together would cause him pain. You chose the action that would bring less pain on a grander scale, despite the fact that you were probably already hurt by the idea of the phone call and get together.
That is a commendable act, I think.

Be proud of yourself.

I guess I could say something kinda jerky here, but I'm going to follow your example and abstain.